The decision of whether to visit Chiang Rai or Chiang Mai presents a distinct choice. In short: Opt for Chiang Mai if your time is limited. It’s more accessible from Bangkok and offers similar experiences. Chiang Mai holds a notable advantage over Chiang Rai, especially with gay travellers. This is because at least Chiang Mai has more than one gay bar.
Check out our guide to Chaing Mai HERE
Now, why consider visiting Chiang Rai alongside Chiang Mai? It boasts a less crowded atmosphere and the distinctive White and Blue Temples are highlights worthy of exploration.
So after arriving at Chiang Rai my first stop was my hostel for a nap. I was shattered after the journey from Luang Probang (Laos) which was over 17 hours on a night bus. Not Fun.
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What to do in Chiang Rai?
While in the city I would recommend doing 3 attractions. These can all be done in 1 day if you cram them in quickly or take your time with it and stay in the city for 3 full days as well as enjoy a cheeky night out in the only gay bar in the town.
The White Temple
Also known as Wat Rong Khun, is an iconic landmark, the stunning contemporary temple stands out for its striking white exterior. Designed by renowned Thai artist Chalermchai Kositpipat, the White Temple is a unique fusion of traditional Thai architecture and modern elements. Construction of the White Temple began in 1997, and it continues to be a work in progress. The temple is dedicated to Buddhism, and its design incorporates Buddhist symbols and motifs throughout.
My highlight of the temple was the mural depicting figures from popular culture. Including superheroes, movie stars, and even politicians, mixed with traditional Buddhist imagery. Despite its relatively recent construction, the White Temple has become one of Thailand’s most visited attractions.
The Blue Temple
Also known as Wat Rong Suea Ten, this is a mesmerising temple. Unlike the White Temple, the Blue Temple’s design is characterized by its vivid blue colouring, which gives it a unique and enchanting appearance. The temple was designed by Chalermchai Kositpipat, the same artist behind the renowned White Temple.
As you approach the Blue Temple, you are greeted by an impressive facade covered with carvings and sculptures. The temple’s main hall depicts scenes from Buddhist mythology and Thai folklore, painted in vibrant hues of blue and gold.
The Clock Tower
This is a prominent landmark in the city and you guessed it, designed by Chalermchai Kositpipat, I’m pretty sure this guy is the main reason why tourists visit Chaing Rai instead of just skipping straight to Chaing Mai.
For me, the best aspect of the Clock Tower is its hourly light and sound show, which takes place every evening after sunset. Surrounding the Clock Tower is a bustling square that serves as a hub of activity, with shops, cafes, and street vendors.
Where to stay in Chiang Rai? Are there any Gay Hostels in Chiang Rai?
No, unfortunately there isn’t. However, you have a few choices when it comes to accommodation in Chiang Rai, Hostelworld offers 20 different Hostels. While booking.com offers 205 properties with 25 of those being listed in the Hostel Category. If I was you I would look out for a hostel close to the bus station as that is most likely where you will be arriving and leaving from however, remember it is a busy area so I would keep that in consideration.
Connect Hostel
The first hostel I booked in the city was Connect Hostel, I chose it mainly because it offered free breakfast and it had great reviews. It’s around a 15-minute walk from the main bus station down the main road so easy to get to but also slightly away from the hustle and bustle.
The hostel is well located as a base to use while exploring the city. The staff are great and helpful as with most hostels I’ve stayed at, breakfast was the highlight for me and the pancakes were amazing, especially for the price of the bed.
They offer 6 and 4-bed dorms with ensuites which is always a treat, 6 bed option is slightly cheaper but not by much.
BED Friends Poshtel
This hostel has a great socialising area, one of the best I have seen on my travels. A rooftop bar with great views, the space is large and the building is modern. You have the choice of male-only dorms at this hostel and of course, I stayed in one and met a very nice young man.
BED Friends is slightly closer to the centre of Chiang Rai compared to Connect Hostel. Go for this hostel if you want modern convenience in terms of the dorms and washrooms, and you never know you may meet someone in your dorm who tickles your fancy.
In terms of Dorms, they offer a 4-bed male-only dorm, a great place to stay in my opinion!
Gay bars in Chiang Rai
So there is only 1 gay bar in the city. It is newish but feels like a classic gay bar in Thailand, a bit trashy but has some nice dancers. Regency Boys Bar is located close to the Clocktower and has some nice restaurants surrounding it. When I arrived I was the only patron and got my own private dance from one of the dancers and it was completely free which surprised me! Maybe because I was the only person and completely alone.
After my dance, I started chatting with the guys who worked in the bar, and then to my surprise, lots of gay English guys started turning up. It felt like I was in Soho at some points which I thought was amusing. The drink prices are on par with other bars but I would always recommend having a few pre-drinks before going to the bar to keep your costs down!
Getting around Chiang Rai
The city centre is pretty small so I think most travellers would be on just using their feet. Getting out to the temples you would need a grab bike or just rent a motorbike. If you’re planning on being in the city for more than 2 days, getting a bike will give you some great flexibility!
Conclusion
Should a gay traveller visit Chiang Rai? Yes if they have the time, if you are travelling onto Laos then you will most likely travel through this city. If that’s the case then I definitely recommend stopping and visiting for a few days but if you are short on time or thinking it’s going to WOW you as much as Chiang Mai or Bangkok think again.