Discover the best of gay-friendly Bangkok with your budget in mind. This guide includes insights into top hostels, bars and entertainment spots, to help you find all you need for an unforgettable stay.
If you’re starting a backpacking trip or extended stay in Southeast Asia, unless you’re going against the grain this is most likely the city you will start in. At first, Bangkok can sometimes be overwhelming and a little intimidating, especially if like me, you have your massive backpack on and you’re lost in Chinatown trying to find your hostel, all without an internet connection!
Nevertheless, give it an afternoon or a day and you will start feeling right at home and enjoy flowing with the city. I haven’t met anyone on my travels who didn’t enjoy Bangkok however I’m sure there are a few travellers out there who avoid it, the city is an adult playground and whatever you are looking for you will most likely find it here which is one of the biggest draws of coming to Bangkok.
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What to do in Bangkok?
Well, the answer depends on how long you are in the city for! I have spent just over two weeks in Bangkok having visited it twice, this is because it was the first destination on my big SE Asia trip and it was also the last I visited before flying off to Australia for my first year of a Working Holiday Visa (WHV). That being said there are three attractions in the city that I wouldn’t miss regardless of how much time you have in Bangkok.
The Grand Palace
This is a must-visit for every traveller to Thailand. Constructed in 1782, it served as the Thai King’s residence for 150 years before transforming into a venue solely reserved for special occasions and ceremonies. This is the first major attraction I visited in Bangkok (other than 7/11) and I was surprised that they charge a different price for foreigners, it was free for Thai people but 500 Baht (£11.10*) for everyone else, you will find this a lot in SE Asia where the locals get a huge discount. However when thinking about it we used to give a discount to Londoners when I was working at the London Eye so it’s fair enough.
You can easily spend a day in the Grand Palace, which I recommend you do.
Open daily: 08:30 – 16:30 hrs. Entrance fee: 500 baht (£11.10*).
Getting there: The best way to get to the palace would be Via the MRT, Bus or Boat. The cheapest is the Bus, but the more exciting way to get there is via boat so have a look on Google Maps and see if there’s a way to get there from wherever you may be, think of it as getting a free boat tour of the city as the Palace is located right in the centre. The most convenient way to get there as with any place in Asia would be by motorcycle so if you have already downloaded the Grab app consider ordering from there!
Wat Arun
Wat Arun, also known as the Temple of Dawn, is a Buddhist temple situated in the Yai district along the Chao Phraya River in Bangkok. Renowned for its breathtaking architectural design and complex decorations, it stands as one of Thailand’s notable landmarks.
Another must-do for any tourist visiting Bangkok no matter who you are, so no excuses for not visiting this one. Undoubtedly breathtaking with its intricate architecture and cultural significance, Wat Arun can be hampered by large crowds, making it difficult to fully enjoy. So I recommend you visit later in the day to avoid the pesky tour groups that swamp the place in the morning and early afternoon. The temple gets lit at night so offers some great photo opportunities for your Instagram story!
Open daily: 08.00 – 18.00 hrs. Entrance fee: 100 baht (£2.22*).
Getting there: It’s in a slightly awkward place in the centre of the city to get to using public transit, however, I do recommend getting the boat again for this temple as the pier that you will get off will be next to the temple entrance. Another option would of course be to order a GrabBike to navigate to the temple quickly without having to haggle with the tuk-tuks!
Wat Pho
Wat Pho, also called the Reclining Buddha Temple, is a revered royal temple, situated south of the Grand Palace. It showcases the largest reclining Buddha in Thailand. Behind the reclining Buddha, you’ll find 108 small pots where placing a coin and giving it a swirl is believed to bring good luck, similar to those coin donation things you used to find in shopping centres in the UK which make the pennies race to the bottom.
Once again this temple is a busy one! I would avoid going in the morning as there will be fewer tour groups and go in the late afternoon! There is also a school within this temple teaching Thai massages so if you’re looking into improving your massage skills (without the happy ending) while away definitely give this a go!
Open daily: 08.00 – 18.30 hrs. Entrance fee: 300 baht (£6.66*).
Getting there: The best way to get to Wat Pho would be Via the MRT, Bus or Boat. The cheapest is the Bus, but the more exciting way to get there is via boat so have a look on Google Maps and see if there’s a way to get there from wherever you may be. It’s right next to the Grand Palace, so easy to find.
So those are my 3 must-dos while in Bangkok, if you’re only stopping for a few days you have enough time to enjoy them. If you’re spending more than a week in Bangkok there is more to see and do, especially if you’re a night owl like me! These 3 attractions cost 900 baht altogether which is just £19.98*! Check out Get Your Guide for more inspiration for your trip to Bangkok!
Where to stay in Bangkok on your gay trip?
There are countless options for where to stay in Bangkok, whether you want to be in the heart of the gay scene in Silom, the party central Khaosan Road or Chinatown. What I recommend you do is stay in all of them! I do recommend an order to stay in them all; start in Chinatown, then Silom and then finally Khaosan Road. Why this order? Because Chinatown is a great place to explore the central city and visit all the temples listed above, Silom to go on some epic nights out and meet as many different gays in many different places ;), Khaosan Road yes it’s trashy but a great place to find other travellers as well as party with them!
With regards to budget always book with Hostel World, not only does this give you a way of finding hostels within your budget, but they have the biggest library of hostels. Two great features of the app are firstly knowing what nationalities will be in the hostel, this can give you a good indication of the vibes of the hostel, but they also offer a group chat with people staying in your hostel! Perfect if you’re a young gay solo traveller.
Chinatown
The First Hostel option I recommend you book is Luk Hostel. Nestled in the vibrant Yaowarat food street, the hostel offers an authentic experience surrounded by rich cultural vibes.
Luk Hostel combines modern architecture, comprehensive amenities, Chinese cultural influences, and a lively atmosphere. Their recently revamped Chinese-style building now features an impressive rooftop and glasshouse, creating a perfect setting for travellers to connect, converse, work, and indulge in the cafe and the Rise Bar. Immerse yourself in the charm of Chinatown and relish a stay that goes beyond the ordinary.
The most cost-effective way to stay at this hostel is choosing the 24-person dorm room, 24 people sounds like a lot but the rooms are designed to be quiet and you have your own space pull your curtains and it feels like you are the only person there for some quiet time.
Dorms from £8.74* per night
The second recommendation for a hostel in Chinatown to book is Time Sabai 32. This hostel, styled in a retro and classic fashion, is conveniently located within walking distance from the Hualamphong MRT and Train station.
This hostel is an ideal choice for travellers seeking a unique perspective to experience Bangkok. Whether you’re embarking on an incredible adventure or visiting Bangkok for a vibrant stay, Time Sabai 32 ensures you won’t be disappointed. The hostel is filled with colour and vibrancy, perfect for solo travellers.
The most cost-effective way to stay at this hostel is by choosing the 10-person dorm room.
Dorms from £7.61* per night
Silom
The first hostel I recommend you stay at is Silom Space Hostel, it’s the first hostel on my travellers where I interacted knowingly with other gay guys. The dorms are nice and not crowded it has a good social space with free tea coffee and noodles all day and night so if you’re feeling peckish after spending the night in DJ Station then they have you covered.
The hostel is across the road from the Skytrain so easy to navigate the rest of the city and Lumbini Park is also close by, there is an open-top gym at the park as well as loads of monitor lizards.
They are above DJ Station (a gay club), as in literally if you are arriving at the Hostel late then you are going to have to walk through the queue of the club to get to the lift that will take you up to reception. Now this hostel doesn’t mention that it catered to the Gay scene however all the male receptionists were gay and would come and meet me in DJ Station after finishing work and even though I booked the mixed dorm, there were only men within.
Prices from £9.01* per night
The second hostel I recommend you stay at in Silom is The Marble Hostel, it’s a hostel that is in the heart of the gay scene in Silom. Step out of this hostel and into the world of gay Bangkok. There is only one type of dorm for this hostel and it’s male-only, I wonder why? Well, let’s just say I had my fair share of fun in this hostel and thoroughly enjoyed the nightlife.
Attractions near The Marble Hostel include the Central Lumphini Urban Park and Silom Night Market, which can be reached in a 10-minute’ walk and a 5-minute’ walk respectively. To get from the hostel to the Gay Silom 4 Alley you need to walk around the block as the Hostel is located down a quiet street with a dead end!
Prices from £7.85* per night
Khaosan Road
Get ready to party the night away every night in Khaosan Road at Here Hostel. This was the final hostel I stayed at before moving onto Vietnam, the drink was flowing and the hangovers were abysmal but well worth it in my opinion and if anything this area of the city is a right of passage for anyone coming through Bangkok for the first time. Make sure your social battery is charged before your first night at Here Hostel.
In terms of facilities, this hostel has the most facilities you would typically find in a backpackers’ hostel such as; security lockers, a swimming pool, a huge social space, a cafe and a bar. The bar to start your night off strong and the swimming pool to nurse your hangover before you do it all over again later that night!
Prices from £11.21* per night
Gay Bars and Clubs in Bangkok
Hope you are ready for some of the best nights out of your gay life. The Bangkok gay scene is outrageous and everything you could want on a big gay night out! As with all gay scenes they pop off at the weekend, so make sure you have booked a hostel over the weekend to explore the nightlife. The big scene of Bangkok is located in Silom, Dj Station mega club is located in Silom Soi 4 and the rest of the bars and clubs are located in Silom Soi 2.
As with any night out, I always have pre-drinks, whether it’s a cheeky Vodka can in the shower while getting ready or in a bar with mates. I recommend you pop down to 7/11 and get something for a bit of Dutch courage especially if this is your first night out in Bangkok, try the flavoured soju that was my go-to when pre-drinking in Asia.
The Stranger Bar
This is where I started my first gay night out in Bangkok is located on (Silom) Soi 4, the bar is a small space and not intimidating, unlike some other venues down the strip. So grab a drink, get chatting with some hotties and start the night off with a bang with one of the daily drag shows that take place.
Here’s why I like them;
- No entry fee
- Drag shows on throughout the night
- Small and intimate
Connections Bangkok
At Connections, I discovered a welcoming and laid-back atmosphere. Here, I just sat on the comfy furniture sipping cocktails and took in the passing parade of hot guys going into the strip. The staff were very friendly, this is a great place to start your night out as they also serve food. So if you haven’t grabbed anything to eat yet and you’re staying in The Marble Hostel this can be a great place to come and start the night. The crowd is a mixture of tourists and locals and with the laid-back atmosphere is a great place to strike up a conversation.
Here’s why I like them;
- No entry fee
- Cheapest drinks I could find in the gay scene in Bangkok (When not happy hour elsewhere)
Hotmale Club and Bar
Ok, Ok this is a GoGo bar instead of a ‘normal’ bar or club however being young and also having never been into one before I decided to go in. I looked at reviews on Google before going and it was a mixture of really bad reviews and really good reviews so I thought how bad can it be? Firstly I was the youngest person in the bar who was a customer but this turned out to be a good thing as I got quite a lot of attention from the guys who worked there.
The staff were not pushy at all as I made it clear I was not going to get a dance, should everyone venture into this establishment no, but if you do, be cautious, keep your belongings close and you will have a great time. Drinks were very expensive but it was free to enter so I thought of it as an entrance fee.
Here’s why I like them;
- Great first Gogo bar experience
- Very hot guys dancing
The Balcony
When I think back to this night out I cringe at my behaviour; Karaoke, Dancing on Tables and my head down the toilet towards the end! It didn’t stop me tho…. This Bar has 2 levels, upstairs is karaoke and a balcony that looks down onto the strip. Downstairs they serve food and then turn it into more of a bar later on. The Balcony hosts events for both the Thai and Western calendars, like Christmas and Halloween. If you’re in Bangkok during Halloween, it’s worth checking out. The main reason to go to this bar is the lively patrons and friendly staff.
While I was there during happy hour the drinks were exceptionally cheap 60 Baht (£1.29) for a beer, this was the cheapest drink I could find in the whole of Bangkok. Now I’m normally a white spirit drinking aka a basic bitch (Vodka Lime Soda) and that is why I think my behaviour got outrageous but still sensible.
Here’s why I like them;
- Great drinks prices
- Staff were great
- Other patrons around my age
- Karaoke (Give it a go even if your shit you will love it)
DJ Station
This is my favourite place to go clubbing in Bangkok, it’s not as intense as clubbing in G Bangkok (below) and it’s large and has a variety of venues and kind of feels like a superclub but split into smaller sections, it’s hard to describe but once you enter you will understand what I mean. The sections of the club offer different vibes, you have Kpop, classic clubbing, chilled, drag queen and another section with an underground feeling area.
Bars are scattered throughout the venue and you never have to wait that long to get a drink, one drink on offer is huge and is essentially an entire bottle of brandy mixed with cola now this drink will last you the whole night. If you are staying at Silom Space hostel ask the guys at reception if they are going down after work, most likely they are!
Here’s why I like them;
- Other patrons around my age
- Silom Space hostel entrance is in the queuing area of the club
- Lots of different areas in the club
- Entrance fee of 300 Baht (£6.60) including 2 drinks
G Bangkok (formally G.O.D.)
This is the club where you take your top off and rub yourself against other men, great fun in my opinion. Now, I by no means have a body with big shoulders, abs and even arms, I’m one of those guys who avoids the gym with a barge pole unless one of my mates forces me to go. That being said I wasn’t very body confident when I went for the first time however I soon realised who gives a toss and this is my first time in Bangkok so let’s go for it. I had a great time and enjoyed the music and snogging many men, I loved singing to Gaga and Kylie remixes.
Here’s why I like them;
- Other patrons around my age
- Tops off everyone! (You don’t have to if you don’t want to though)
- Entrance fee of 400 Baht (£8.90) including 2 drinks
Getting around Bangkok
So there are endless options for getting around Bangkok! My favourite is jumping on the rail system, similar to the London Underground or Paris Metro and as per usual get Google Maps or Citymapper to do the work for you. Another mode which I mentioned earlier was catching a boat, there are so many canals in Bangkok you can get to a lot of places on a boat so check it out and see where you end up.
I also used the bus while in Bangkok but it’s pretty difficult to navigate mainly because the bus stops are not clear and the drivers don’t speak English, if you’re feeling confident though go for it you never know what you might discover. I would discourage you from getting in a taxi car in Bangkok because the city is almost constantly gridlocked in the day, jump in one on the way home from a night out but I would avoid it in the daytime as you will have to pay tolls and sit in traffic.
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Nice first post so really good info here for planning a trip.